How did you become you?

I often attempt to make dining out for lunch a common occurrence. Last week, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Gavin Baker, CEO of Abunga.com.

We shared a lot of good stories pertaining to the past and present. I was, however, caught off-guard by a question from Gavin who asked, “how did the Casey who grew up in East Tennessee become the Casey Peters that we know today?”

I can’t say that I have ever given much thought to that question. As I fumbled around I left wondering if I really answered his question. So, here are a few short points that get at an answer.

• I’m not afraid of being wrong. Someone once asked me, “Casey, what would you say to a classroom full of high school students?” to which I replied, “Screw up and screw up often.” I don’t advise that you begin a search for mistakes; that would be like putting your car in reverse. However, I have learned more from being wrong than I have from being right. Furthermore, mistakes have forced me to become more innovative.
• You have to care about everything. If someone takes the time to create an application, write a book, carry out a favor, let that person know that you care. Send a note or e-mail stating that it changed you so it can in return, better the creator/writer/person or their work.
• I’m not afraid of ‘no’. Everyone puts their pants on the same way in the morning; maybe some are more graceful than others. If you want advice, feedback or have a favor request, don’t be afraid to climb the totem pole for an answer. I promise, hearing ‘no’ isn’t all that scary.